Creating a World Where Mental Health Is Valued

At UrMindMatters, my mission is simple: to provide a safe, compassionate space where your voice is heard, your experiences are respected, and your healing is possible.

I Am Listening

I know how daunting therapy can feel, especially when you’ve spent years carrying the belief that you’re “not good enough” or that something is broken inside you. These are not truths — they are scars left by past experiences.

My role is to listen deeply, without judgment, and to help you gently untangle the roots of your pain so you can begin to rebuild your sense of worth.

BABCP accredited

I am a BABCP Accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Accredited EMDR Therapist. Trained also in Schema Therapy and Compassion-Focused Therapy.

Professional Standards Authority
BABCP

Published Author – Contributor to professional therapy texts

Alongside my therapeutic practice, I am also a published author. I have contributed chapters to professional books exploring diversity, harmful sexual behaviours and effective strength based approaches to therapy with young people, including:

  • A Study of the Experiences of Black and Asian Young People Whose Behaviour is Sexually Harmful” (in Working with children and young people who sexually abuse).
  • Motivating and Engaging Young People” (in The Good Lives Model for Adolescents Who Sexually Harm)
    These contributions reflect my ongoing commitment to research, diversity, and advancing best practice within the field of therapy and mental health.

Building a Brighter Future Together

For more than 30 years, I’ve worked with individuals facing anxiety, trauma, relationship struggles, and the lasting effects of early life harm. My approach is always collaborative, trauma-informed, and tailored to your unique journey.

98%+

Client Satisfaction

900 +

Successful Therapy Hours

120%+

Reported Improvement in Quality of Life

“Healing is not a destination but a journey. Each step forward is progress, and every challenge is an opportunity to grow.”

–    Elleen Okotie

From Counselling to Therapy, I Support Every Step of Your Journey

Therapy with me is never “one-size-fits-all.” I begin with understanding your story and your needs, and together we decide the best therapeutic approach. Whether that’s CBT for anxiety, EMDR for trauma, Schema Therapy for deep-rooted patterns, or CFT to ease self-criticism, every step is tailored to you.

Clinical Expertise

Evidence-based therapies (CBT, EMDR, Schema, CFT).

Personalised Care

A holistic, strength-based model focused on your goals.

Trusted Support

Compassionate, confidential, and culturally inclusive.

Guided by Values That Matter

My work is grounded in:

Compassion

Creating a safe, non-judgmental space.

Resilience

Helping you uncover strength even in painful experiences.

Inclusivity

Supporting clients from diverse backgrounds, especially those who feel unseen in traditional systems.

Collaboration

Therapy as a partnership, not a prescription.

Let’s Begin Your Journey

Therapy is a journey — and the first step can feel the hardest. Whether online or in person in Chorlton, Manchester, I offer a safe and supportive space to begin. Session fee £95 per 50min session.